my love/hate relationship with the T and other Boston oddities
For those of you considering coming (or have already decided to come) to Boston from other parts of the country, there are a few peculiarities you should be aware of.
- Unlike the NYC subway, "express" is not a necessarily a good thing on the T. The Green Line can be frustrating sometimes, but there's cheap and decent housing out there. You'll be tempted to talk on your cell phone on the parts of the T that run above ground. Don't. No one wants to hear about how your significant other doesn't consider your needs in the relationship. (True story, sat next to this girl for 20 minutes. Pretty sure he's not so significant anymore.)
- People definitely look at you funny when you randomly talk to them or try to help them out. Being from the midwest, I do this regularly, but then again, I'm ok with people looking at me funny. It's ok, they're just not used to it.
- The accent: I still don't understand some of the things people say, but this I do know: It's not chowder, it's "chowdah." You just have to accept it and move on.
- It's a old joke, but it's true: if you don't like the weather in New England, wait five minutes. Good tip: Always carry an umbrella. A quality umbrella. The wind here is no joke sometimes.
All this being said, I love Boston and all the weird little things about it. I still smile and say hi to strangers. It's a good place to be yourself and be challenged by those who are different from you. And I hear the baseball team's pretty good...

