Going to Law School *and* Having a Life
I thought I would write this blog piece about student life at NUSL. As an older and married student, one of my concerns was that I might not fit in with the rest of the student body. I have happily found that not to be the case. In fact, I have made lots of terrific friends here and really feel that I fit in. The student body and faculty have both been warm and welcoming.
Although law school can be overwhelming at times (particularly during the first year), I have nonetheless found that it affords me with plenty of social time. This past weekend, for instance, I went to see the Boston Symphony Orchestra. One of my supervising attorneys invited my wife and I to accompany her and her boyfriend to see the BSO perform Bruckner and Shostakovich. Because attendance has plummeted during the Red Sox world series games, Symphony Hall has been giving free tickets away. It was a lot of fun!
Spending time with law school friends has been an important part of my legal education. This past month, I have had lots of terrific outings with other law students: dinner with my torts professor's first year advisees, Chinatown dinner with my Domestic Violence Institute team, the Actors' Gang production of 1984 at Northeastern, a talk by Garrison Keillor, brunch in Cambridge and a few other things.
It might not seem obvious to a law school applicant that he or she should examine his or her relation to the rest of the student body, but it's a consideration that I would definitely advise you to take into account. Establishing meaningful relationships with other students will benefit you in so many ways. You will have people with which to form study groups, discuss legal issues and ultimately get through some of law school's tougher moments. All in all, it will benefit you academically, socially and professionally. Accordingly, I would urge prospective students to any law school to carefully observe the student body and note how students interact with one another. If you get the sense that you will not thrive in that setting, I think that feeling should inform your calculus of where to enroll.
In the interest of full disclosure, though, I should also note that there are times (even at NUSL) when there seems to be no time at all for one's friends and family. Thankfully, these times are circumscribed to exam week and the preceding ten or so days. I also think this is a phenomenon that is common to almost every law school.
That's it for now. Feel free to email if you have any questions! I will be back next week to write about NUSL's Domestic Violence Institute. Have a terrific week!
