Don't Cry Over Spilled Milk
As President of one of the eight class honoraries that comprise AOSCH (The Association of Ohio State Class Honoraries), I recently had the opportunity to facilitate our new member retreat. The day's agenda was filled with icebreakers, team builders, and skill assessments to better acquaint the members' leadership styles with one another. And, although each may have had their favorite activity, one in particular has remained fresh on my mind.
This activity paired students as they sat across a table from each other. Before them laid a sealed cereal box, carton of milk, banana, plastic spoon and knife, and a bowl. The object was for each team to successfully prepare a bowl of cereal topped with a sliced banana while remaining blindfolded with their strong hand behind their back. This variation left each tandem with two weak hands and only verbal communication in order to execute the otherwise simple task.
Being the facilitator, I had the guilty pleasure of watching fifteen groups of two struggle to burst every Toasty-O's bag in the room and to further manage ways to spill milk in places milk should never find. Once each group had completed the assignment, they could open their eyes and view their artwork (the completely prepared bowl of cereal).
Now, although none looked as scrumptious as they ever do in television commercials, I realized one important thing: The end result was still a bowl of cereal.
You may be wondering, "What else did you expect to see?" And, I assume my response would be, "A tastier looking bowl of cereal than what had been produced."
You see, when I need to complete a task, I always believe that there is exactly and only one way to reach success my way. When tackling group projects, the end result never seams to turn out as good as it should unless my input is used 100% of the time. However, as I watched the members of each group open their eyes to examine their progress, I then decided that there is often many ways to achieve the same results. Just because the bowl of cereal might not have looked as appetizing as it may have on the box doesn't mean it wouldn't have tasted just the same.
Therefore, I noticed that my old way of thinking doesn't necessarily add up to overall success like I had once thought it should. If proper communication and teamwork exists, the end result could and should always be well within reach... as long as you look beyond the spilled milk.
