Time flies when you are having fun, and when you are not!
It is so hard to believe that next week is Thanksgiving! This semester has been a roller coaster of exciting and interesting classes, projects, and events. It also has had special challenges for me because I caught that nasty flu just a couple weeks into the semester. In some ways I have felt like a racehorse that stumbled out of the starting gate and has been running hard to catch up with the herd. At this point it does seem like I am going to get to the finish line. My endurance and persistence may have been stronger than I thought, or the herd is just slowing down! Whatever the truth we areand get to the finish somehow, someway.
So let me share some of the high points of this semester. I am taking a class in my area of interest, military families. I am particularly interested in the nonmilitary spouse and children in military families, and will probably do my dissertation in some area related to them. The instructor for this class is one of the original pioneers to investigate the needs and experiences of military families. She is now an established national and international expert, whose consultation is sought by individuals at the highest levels in the Department of Defense and other international organizations, as well as researchers and policy makers. In every class I think of how fortunate I am to be able to match up my interests with someone so outstanding. If that experience wasn't great enough, a couple of weeks ago I also had the opportunity to meet and talk with another outstanding expert in military families who has written classic works that focus on the children in military families. He like the faculty here at UMB, was very responsive and generous in offering suggestions and advice to a second-year doctoral student. One sometimes hears in the popular media that many college professors are not really interested in teaching or their students. That certainly is not my experience.
The challenging aspect of the semester has been getting behind early. I am not the most naturally organized or focused person in the world. Prior to beginning the program here, I often allowed curiosity to trump "staying on task". But it is true what people who have successfully completed their PhD's will say: a big part of your success is simply staying organized and focused. That is true under the best of circumstances and especially true when unanticipated events occur... And they always well it seems. Whether illness or family needs or unexpected difficulties with a database, something will come up that causes you to revise your plans! It seems that it is the basic things like being organized and managing your time well that are as important ingredients to success as creativity or analytic skills.
Having engaging in support of classmates is also a tremendous plus that should never be taken for granted. I have heard from students in other programs that competition rather than cooperation dominates their graduate studies. In my cohort, cooperation and support prevail, the competition is of the kind that spurs people on to do their best.
Well, as Thanksgiving approaches, I know I certainly have a lot to be thankful for. I hope everyone out there has a great Thanksgiving too!
Peggy

