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Class of 2012
Major: Marine Biology / Psychobiology
From: Scottsdale, AZ 

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December 15, 2008

The Holidays

Well Everyone it has finally come. It's finals week and everyone is studying and packing up to go home (much like myself, I leave Tuesday ^^). I hope everyone has enjoyed my blogs so far and will come back next year ready for the new semester.

Today I want to share with you what my holidays are like. It may be a bit confusing, but they are fun none the less. You see I come from a rather poor family. I don't know how we make ends meet, but I am very grateful that we do. As I told you before I was born in Colorado and lived there for about half of my life. When I moved to Arizona my mother brought family traditions and creativity to make up for the loss of the things we left at home (i.e. Snow). Now, my holidays are wild and crazy all the way through. It starts the day after Thanksgiving. We turn on Christmas music as soon as everyone wakes up and start decorating. We stay in with the family instead of going shopping on Black Friday, like so many others. We do all our shopping before or the week after. Anyway, throughout the day my mom and two sisters take out all of the decorations as I set everything apart and organize it. You see I am the decorator of the family. We start outside decorations early in the morning and work until about noon, because by that time the sun is up and the temperature is at the high, which is too hot to be outside for long periods of time. If we don't finish we do so the next morning. The rest of the night we turn on holiday movies (i.e. It's a Wonderful Life and Holiday Inn) and decorate inside.

For holiday celebrations we participate in two holidays and hold parties. Our first holiday, or Sabbath as we call it, is Yule, which is similar to Christmas. We exchange one gift and hold a ritual to celebrate the birth of our God from the Goddess. We also light candles and a Yule log, casting a spell in hopes for a healthy and happy new year. If you want to learn more about this Sabbath you can search it or simply ask me about. I am more than happy to chare more information about it. ^^ We then hold a holiday party where people come to celebrate all holidays and exchange gifts with each other. Our parties are quite famous in our neighborhood and our friends look forward to it every year. After the party Christmas isn't too far behind and so we celebrate Christmas for those around us that celebrate it as well. We also celebrate it because it was what we celebrated with our grandparents before we came and sometimes we go to Colorado to be with them or they come to Arizona to be with us. On Christmas Eve everyone is allowed to pick one present to open and play with for the night. We then have dinner and desert. After that we watch White Christmas and go to bed as soon as it is over. The next morning no one (and I mean no one) is allowed to open presents until everyone is up and (this one always bothered me as a child) you aren’t allowed to wake the parents up. >.< Only then can we open the rest of the presents. We do this by sorting out everyone’s gifts and take turns opening presents, almost in a round. The rest of the day we play, visit and go to others houses. We spend time with close friends and family, focusing on each other. We can't go outside and play like many others because of the heat and there is no snow to play with, so we have to find other things to do.

Well, that is my holiday from across the country and of a different religion. It is much more hectic when we actually participate in it, but I love every minute of it. Again, if you are curious about it and want more details please comment and ask about it!

Happy Holidays everyone! I hope yours is as relaxing as I plan mine to be. Thanks for reading and I hope to see you next year.

Merry Meet and Farewell till next year!

December 10, 2008

Don't Sweat The Small Stuff

Hello again everyone!!! It’s the last week of classes and I'm sure everyone is counting down the days until they go home!! (I know I am!!!) Unfortunately, this does not mean our stress levels or workloads have gone down. This is precisely what I want to discuss today. How can we find time to relax and get everything we need to get done finished? In this post I want to share the way I do it and some other things you can do to relieve the stress.

1. Keep your due dates in a planner. This way you know when assignments are due and can plan accordingly.
2. Set up a schedule for yourself. Make time for everything you need to do for the day (i.e. Eat, nap, different assignments, etc.) and stick to that schedule. This way you know how much you need to get done per unit of time and be able to arrange it so you can finish the assignments in a timely and orderly fashion. Doing this will also discourages procrastination. (Sweet, sweet procrastination >.<) Make the schedule according to when the assignment is due and how long or difficult the assignment may be. For example, if it is an easy assignment that isn't due for a week or two you can hold out on it, or finish it quickly so you don't have to worry about it.
3. Be sure you eat and sleep. Without these you lose energy and mental processing, preventing you from being able to focus.
4. Put yourself in a comfortable, non-disruptive environment. I don't necessarily mean a place that is quiet because sometimes I even need some music or background noise to keep me stimulated. Just go somewhere you are comfortable and won’t be distracted from your work.
5. Don't be afraid to ask for help. If you feel you are missing something or you just need help, ask. There are plenty of people (i.e. friends, classmates, roommates and RA's) that are more than willing to help you.
6. Do something other than study and work! You have to walk away from time to time and let yourself relax. Participate in activities with friends or on your own. An example would be Stress X this Saturday the 13th. There will be back massages (Ah….back massages….) and many other activities to help relieve the stress. It will be held in the MPR's and The Hang. Don’t miss out!!!
7. Don't study too much at one time. It is a fact that a person cannot retain complete concentration for more than 15 minutes at a time. (Don’t believe me? Look it up :P) Plan your study time to be about 15-20 minutes, and then take a 5-10 minute break. Go take a walk, talk to friends or anything else that will get you to stop thinking about studying for a few minutes. If you continue this and break up your time you will be able to better memorize and retain the information you are studying more efficiently.

I hope you find these suggestions helpful and that you can use them for the last few days of class and next semester. Good luck on your last few days! Keep up the great work, we are almost done!!!

Merry Meet and Farewell for now!

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